When I was 18 months old, I was adopted from the orphanage located in the Social Welfare Institute in Xinyi City, near the prefecture city of Maoming in the Guangdong Province. When I was four or five year’s old, I asked my adoptive parents about my birth parents. I wanted to know the names of my birth parents, their ages, and what they looked like. I wanted to understand why they placed me for adoption. My parents said they did not know the answers to any of my questions but agreed to help me locate my birth parents.
After autosomal testing became available, my dad had my DNA tested and entered in as many DNA databases as possible. However, these databases were filled with DNA samples of individuals who lived in the West (i.e., the US and Europe). Very few of these DNA samples belonged to individuals of Chinese descent. Fortunately, as these databases grew in size and number my DNA matched to two 3rd cousins. Both were young men (whose parents and grandparents had previously lived in Xinyi City) who attended college in America and were working in the US when they had their DNA tested. I reached out to my 3rd cousins and both were very helpful by providing information about their living relatives and ancestors. We used this information to create family tree diagrams in the hope that the information on these charts would eventually intersect and point to my birth family, but they never did.
By chance, I made contact with another adoptee who was one of my distant cousins and who recently uploaded her DNA results in the 23Mofang DNA database. My dad had been tracking the growth of this database for the past three years. We were waiting until the 23Mofang database had grown large and mature enough before uploading my DNA data.
In August 2020, I uploaded my DNA tests results and my DNA matched to a 1st cousin. Although I sent the 1st cousin several messages within the 23Mofang application, she did not reply. So my dad reached out to a 23Mofang customer service representative and requested they reach out to the 1st cousin to ask her to consider replying to my text messages, if she chose to do so. 23Mofang was happy to help and said they would try to make contact with the 1st cousin. Soon after 23Mofang made contact, my 1st cousin replied to me. Her surname was Zhou. She knew her uncle had placed a child for adoption the same year I was born and so replied to my messages. We exchanged WeChat IDs and began a conversation. She put me in touch with her uncle’s oldest daughter and the uncle’s daughter and her parents agreed to take a DNA test. The test results confirmed that the uncle’s daughter was my biological sister and her parents were my biological parents.
Although 23Mofang had already reunited two dozen children adopted domestically within China with their birth families, I was the first international adoptee who matched to a Chinese birth family via the 23Mofang DNA database.
I will be grateful to 23Mofang forever for contacting my 1st cousin and helping me make contact with her.
I recommend that any international Chinese adoptee, who desires to reconnect with his or her birth parents, upload their DNA test results within the 23Mofang DNA database. As my dad says, “It is not a question of if they will receive a match but when it will occur. As the database grows in size, it is only a matter of time before that adoptee will connect with a close relative (i.e., 1st or 2nd cousin, aunt, uncle, grandparent, sibling, or birth parent).”
— Mia H.